This one is for the girls. We’re talking girlfriends getaways and we’re bringing a list. So here it is the group scoop’s top ten advice for girlfriend getaways:
#1 Vegas, baby. The #1 destination in the US for a girlfriends getaways is Las Vegas- what they say is true, “what happens in Vegas, stays...” um, that is “what happens between us girls, stays between us girls”
#2 Plan, plan, plan. And please don’t over schedule - you don't want to be on the clock! You can use Groople’s Groopvine to help you keep everybody’s contact info, details, everything together.
#3 On the horizon. Set a date far, far in advance and stick to it! Yes, it can be hard to find the perfect time, but it’s always easier when it’s down the road – and written down. Why not try for the same weekend every year?
#4 The return trip. When you fall in love with that special place and all the girls want to make it same time, same place next year…book early. Become a regular, you’ll usually get discounts and the red carpet treatment.
#5 The small expenses kitty. Everyone chips in an amount at the start, and then you can pay for small expenses (coffee, taxis) without any unnecessary arguing over who should pay. If anyone mentions her husband or kids by name while on the trip, she has to donate to the kitty.
#6 Bring photos, take new ones. Old photos are a must – always the more embarrassing, the better. The trip is certain to be a trip down memory land and you’ll want the photo evidence. Take lots of pictures of this year’s trip to have a look back at a trip gone by. I suggest something like every third trip look at the photo set from three years ago…
#7 Play nice. If she wants to go to a museum but you don't but she went to a different attraction for you, and said nothing, then it's your turn for a sacrifice. No one is going to want to see the exact same things as their friends. It's usually not as fun to go alone, so a compromise can save hurt feelings and as long as you go together, it can't be that bad- bring those photos we talked about!
#8 Take some alone time. Not everybody needs it but for those of us who do, we crave it. And our girl’s getaway is all about indulging cravings.
#9 Shopping. Force a shopping trip by not packing everything. Shopping is always a must and I’ve always found it a kick to intentionally not pack a scarf or bag I’ll need so I have a ready made excuse to go shopping on the trip (as if I needed one...but). Memories you can wear.
#10 The shampoo list. The most practical advice for last- the toiletry assignments. Designate each person to bring one bulky toiletry item (shampoo, conditioner, blow-dryer, lotion, etc.) to share with the group. We don’t want to take up all the bathroom counter space with two dozen bottles do we?
Why aren’t you planning yet?
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